Picking a good lesbian wedding song is harder than it looks. It seems like our community’s best voices have more of a knack for being bitter and angry, or at least wistful and introspective, rather than sweet and sappy. You also want something that you can play in front of your parents without outing yourself as a freak. Here are a few that fit the bill.

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From the Lesbian Life Forum:

Common disagreement among my female friends...should the Knight in shining armor role retire? I'm old fashioned, I open doors for other women, I pay for meals unless it makes them uncomfortable, and then I ask if I can pay for coffee or whatever afterwards, I also try to listen and be attentive to a woman's needs, like if she says she's having a bad day, I'll cancel dinner out and bring it over to her house to just relax or if she sees something in the window to surprise her with it. I'll defend her if necessary.

Well according to my friends this make me not only a softie, but someone of my grandfather's generation... The thing is, this is just who I am, I mean I respect a woman's need to be an individual and do things for herself, but I also feel that doing things like opening doors and pulling out her seat are also signs of my respect for her. I've always been for lack of a better term "a perfect gentleman" when out with a woman, but my friends think that it can be off-putting to women of today, and to their credit, I DO feel uncomfortable when men open doors for me or offer to pay for lunch when I'm at my office. Is this role outdated?

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